Join the Align Your Life program so that you can break free, reclaim your energy, feel confident and have healthier relationships.
You feel like you're constantly searching for the missing piece to make it all click, but never actually taking the leap forward...
You’re stuck questioning every decision and second-guessing your intuition, leaving you confused and conflicted...
You’re pulled in so many directions, trying to please everyone and meet their needs, leaving you so drained and unsure of what you even want...
The Self-Sacrificing Wound keeps you stuck in a cycle of putting everyone else’s needs before your own, draining your energy and leaving you feeling unseen and unheard.
It traps you in constant overwhelm, self-doubt, and emotional exhaustion, making it hard to move forward with clarity and confidence.
And causes a lot of grief, judgement and resentment on the way.
The Self-Sacrificing Wound drains your energy. You're constantly putting others first leaving you with nothing for yourself, leading to burnout and emotional exhaustion. You end up feeling depleted and disconnected from your own needs.
It keeps you in a state of doubt, the mental looping is painful and literally makes you sick when all you can think of is "what am I doing wrong?", "what about me?"
It leads to unfulfilled desires... You're avoiding self-care, delaying your wants, putting off taking the training... and possibly convincing yourself you cant have what you want all while feeling your souls-calling?
If you're like me and (many other sensitive souls), you’ve been carrying a self-sacrificing wound genetically passed down, shaped by your upbringing, past trauma, and societal pressures.
This wasn’t your choice—it’s what you were taught to survive.
Trauma often ties our worth to how much we give to others, while society pushes the idea that selflessness is more valuable than self-care. This can make putting yourself first feel “wrong.”
As a result, you may avoid opportunities, stay in your comfort zone, and seek approval from others, leaving you emotionally drained, overwhelmed, and stuck.
If honoring your needs feels “selfish” or “unrealistic,” and if you're feeling anxious or nervous reading this right now... it’s time to release this wound with compassion and reconnect to your true worth.
To give some perspective, a person who self-prioritizes thinks, feels and acts very differently compared to
someone who is stuck in the self-sacrificing energy.
Instead of thinking taking time for yourself is “selfish", "arrogant" or even somehow a "neglectful" act. You can love doing things for yourself because you'll realize the more you can give to you, the easier everything falls into place.
Instead of being stuck in a cycle of overdoing for others, never feeling like it’s enough. You can feel really good about setting boundaries and focusing on what truly matters to you.
Instead of feeling terrified of judgment and rejection. You'll embraces the discomfort, knowing it’s part of the process of growth and living authentically.
Instead of constantly looking for solutions outside of yourself. You'll finally trust your inner wisdom and take confident action.
People who Self-Prioritize are actively
IN THEIR POWER!
(and not giving it away)
They go after what they want because they BELIEVE they can have it. They have standards, values and experience happy, honest relationships.
They see risks as opportunities.
When you shift into self-prioritizing, you gain clarity and confidence to live a life true to you. You’ll feel grounded, energized, and in control, knowing each choice moves you closer to the life you want.
Self-Prioritization is important because...
YOU ONLY HAVE THIS ONE LIFE!
As sensitive souls, empaths and cycle breakers - we are uniquely equipped with intuitive gifts that can deeply impact those around us when shared with authenticity, heart and in clarity.
The world needs the care, the compassion, and the alignment that we bring. Every one of us feels the call of our soul, our purpose—our passion. This calling is the light within us, waiting to be amplified, not just for our own growth, but to inspire others to embody their own light too.
It’s so important that we stand confidently in who we are, trusting our gifts and the value they bring to the world. When we do this, we create a ripple effect, one that elevates the collective energy of humanity and brings more love and healing to those who need it most.
Your passion is not random—it’s your soul's message to the world, and it’s time to let it shine.
The world is calling for more of you, more of your authenticity, and more of your light. The more you amplify this within yourself, the more you inspire others to do the same.
I’ve been on my own healing journey for over a decade—long before becoming a breathwork teacher or somatic coach. I know what it’s like to hold it all together while falling apart inside. I’ve lived the exhaustion, the people-pleasing, the self-doubt. And I know the freedom that comes when you stop abandoning yourself and start honoring your body, your truth, and your needs.
I created the Align Your Life Program because self-sacrifice is a generational pattern so ingrained it takes intention and support to undo. This program is built from the exact tools and practices that helped me—and my clients—shift emotional patterns, set boundaries without guilt, and feel safe taking up space again.
Through breathwork, compassionate self-inquiry, and trauma-informed practices, you’ll release what’s not yours to carry and reconnect with who you really are.
This isn’t just another online course—it’s a reset, a lifestyle change, and a return to self. You don’t have to hold it all alone anymore. You’re allowed to choose you now—and I’d be honored to walk with you.
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12 Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls 90-minute sessions blending authentic relating, teaching, Introspective Breathwork® Therapy, and integration.
Private Community A safe space for encouragement, reflection, and belonging with others on the same path.
Lifetime Access To online material and rejoin any future Align Your Life cohort at no extra cost.
Companion Journal A beautifully designed journal with guided prompts, reflection space, and integration practices to deepen your journey week by week.
On Demand LibraryFrom simple nervous system regulation tools to longer guided experiences, enjoy an ever-growing library of practices to support your healing journey.
This phase is about uncovering what’s been holding you back and reconnecting with who you truly are.
You’ll gain clarity on the beliefs, patterns, and emotions that have shaped your life, and begin releasing what no longer serves you.
Phase 2
Now that you have clarity, it’s time to take back control of your energy, emotions, and decisions.
You’ll strengthen your boundaries, learn to regulate emotions with ease, and rebuild trust in yourself.
The final phase is about building confidence and claiming your light!
You’ll build a personal support system, deepen self-love, and align your actions with your true desires.
Liv
Debbie is an extraordinary human being. The impact she has had on my life has been truly profound. I can say with absolute conviction that I am a changed and better version of myself since I began working with and learning from her. Her guidance and support throughout my healing journey have been invaluable.
This program was created for sensitive, self-aware people who are tired of carrying the weight of everyone else’s expectations—and are ready to reset their life, finally living for them.
Our participants often include:
Those healing from emotional overwhelm, burnout, people-pleasing, or self-abandonment
Cycle-breakers who want to stop repeating the patterns they grew up with
Coaches, healers, therapists, and space holders who give so much to others but struggle to care for themselves
Individuals seeking deeper self-trust, clearer boundaries, and a life that actually feels aligned
If you’ve been feeling stuck, shut down, disconnected, or like you’re constantly putting yourself last... This program is the support you need! Are you willing to choose yourself—and take the next step?
You often walk on eggshells or try to “keep the peace,” even when it costs you your truth.
Even small decisions feel heavy because you’re constantly managing others’ expectations.
You replay conversations in your head, second-guess your needs, and struggle to make confident choices.
Even after time off, you feel emotionally tired, because your energy keeps leaking into places that aren’t aligned.
You’ve been the go-to support person for everyone... except yourself.
It feels uncomfortable, selfish, or “too much” to take up space or protect your time.
Speaking your truth feels unsafe, or like it will lead to conflict, rejection, or being misunderstood.
You’ve been so focused on being who others need you to be, you’re not sure what you really want anymore.
You know something needs to shift, but fear, guilt, or overwhelm keeps you in familiar patterns.
You carry so much under the surface, because it hasn’t felt safe to be fully seen.
This program has supported people around the world to reconnect with themselves, heal emotional patterns, create healthier relationships, and feel more grounded and clear in their daily lives.
The 21-Day Alignment Reset is a short, self-guided course designed to help you pause, reset, and start choosing yourself again—especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or stuck in old patterns. It offers bite-sized somatic practices, reflections, and breathwork to gently reconnect with your body and truth.
The Align Your Life Program is a deeper, more comprehensive journey. It includes a full trauma-informed curriculum, lifetime access, and the option to join a live 12-week cohort for group coaching, community support, and extended healing tools. If the 21-day course is the spark, Align Your Life is the full flame.
No. This program was made for you. It’s trauma-informed, self-paced, and intentionally designed to support your nervous system—not override it. You can move through each phase in your own time, with gentle practices that meet you where you are.
Both options include full access to the Align Your Life curriculum.
The Self-Paced version is for you if you prefer to move privately and independently. Some aren't ready or seeking the relational healing right now and thats OKAY! When the time comes, self-paced persons can always upgrade to join a LIVE cohort and receive the extra perks!
The Live Cohort includes 12 weeks of live group coaching, breathwork sessions, access to a private community, and extended resources for deeper support and connection.
You get lifetime access to the entire program curriculum—no deadlines, no pressure. If you join a live cohort, you'll also receive 6 months of access to the private community and extended resource library.
This isn’t about forcing change through willpower or mindset alone. Align Your Life helps you access healing through the body—using breathwork, somatic practices, and trauma-informed tools. It’s about integration, not performance. This work helps you shift patterns at the root level, not just manage symptoms.
Not at all. Everything is explained in a clear, accessible way—no prior experience needed. You’ll be gently guided and supported to connect with your body and breath, at a pace that feels safe and grounded.
There’s no “behind” in this program. Whether you move through it in 12 weeks or 12 months, the tools will be there for you when you’re ready. This is your journey—and it’s built to support your rhythm.
© 2025 Deborah Dickey